Determination

You might need a little bit of encouragement, a little bit of  momentum, a little bit of power to contiune with what you are doing. You might need something to drive you, to make you follow what only you are following. Not being determined will make you quit and you won’t get what you want.

 

Do not!

Don’t let anyone move you from your vision, don’t let anyone disturb what you want to do or what you want to achieve, bit by bit, element by element, detail by detail. Do not second-guess about things, it will make you distracted, you won’t get yourself where you want. You will not get full potential of what you want to achieve. You will fail to get yourself pleased by what you accomplish, you might even let others down while you do not concentrate and strive on what you want. Do not quit, quitting is for losers. You do not want half of what’s important for you, you do not want just a part of what is ment for you, you want all of it. Don’t let others dictate what you want, don’t work for others, don’t think for others, do it for yourself.

 

Solution

Decide what you want! Make a decision on what you want, get hungry with it, with your passion, find it, breath it, eat it and when you think you’re done, do it again! Find the right motivation that makes you stay in the race, that makes you battle with everyone and everything trying to stop you and makes you want to win! Breathe your vision, your image of the achievement, the image of you accomplishing what you want to do, if it getting a new car, getting a new job, getting a new life, see it, incorporate it in you, start acting like you really want it, like nobody can stop you from getting it, decide you won’t quit even if the most awful things happen to you and you will succeed! 

 

“I’ll tell you this

in any fight

it is the guy who is willing to die

who is going to win that inch” – Al Pacino, Inch by inch – Any given sunday!

 

Now get it done!

Writte down what you want to get, make a list of 10-15 things you want to achieve over a year. Write your motivation, your “Why?”, make it bigger and better everytime you think about your goal. Start listening to motivational speeches, you might think it’s a waste of time but repeatedly doing it will start making you determined and driven by with you purpose. Start going to seminars, motivation is right around the corner. Take action!

 

Gentlemen Principles

How to setle as a gentleman

The gentleman is often overlooked in our times, in the contemporary, few know the right attitude of being a gentleman. But the character and the principles of a gentleman still stand out  and stand strong within most of men.

 

The Gentleman of the Past

The gentleman of the past is recognized by his upstaying position, his straight backbone, his up-showing nose, his often smiling face, natural movement of his body and pleasing ability to comunicate with people, verbal and non-verbal, showing grattitude and chivalry. A very common ability of a past gentleman is his attitude for the unknown people, also known as character, that has a substantially different aproach,other then the modern Gentleman. 

 

Open and polite with new people whom he has never met, the Gentlemen of the Past is showing his positivism in bringing the unkwon person in his life, seeking and pointing out the good and respectfully showing the negative behaviour in not so well manered people. Concentrating in showing the positive aspects, he is equally patient and calculated when in a fight, standing up for what he believes, for what he desires.

A good example of a Past Gentleman is shown in The Counte Of Monte Cristo, where the ingenious little boy, the captain’s right hand, Edmond Dantes, proves his potential, becoming one of the most respected gentlemen in Paris and known in the whole world. Going through different obstacles, he keeps his calm and respects the gentlemen’s code, even if his intentions are not good-oriented, adapting the code to his actuals need, to manipulate others.

Contemporary Gentleman

The contemporary gentleman is not so open oriented when comming to new people in his life. He’s being much more restrained when coming to allowing unkwon people in his life, being cold and rigid in his approach. He is more egocentric, concentrating all of the attention on himself, his character mostly missing the warm approach in what means new persons. He is not lacking the attitude of a gentleman, but he’s more egoistic than the “past” gentleman and is more reserved to according joy to others, even tought he’s respecting others in a well manered way. He’s attitute is cold and severe, but it’s there and he’s not missing it. 

 

 

Yet, in the world there are exceptions when coming to… mostly everything. And looking at Justin Timberlake, whom I consider to be one of the “modern” gentlemen, open and polite, saying his point of view and standing out for it, I can say he is one of the most successful contemporary gentleman in every aspect. Despite his sexual oriented themes in his songs, he’s behaviour reflects the character of a good man, respectful, with strong principels, never backing up, commited and keeping his word. Big acts, little gestures is what defines the attitude of a gentleman, Justin doing them every time he can, even for an unknown person.

 

The contemporary gentleman simply looks more rigid than the “past”one, yet there are plenty of examples in our time that can contrast with the regular type, proving the contrary. 

What do you think?

Comment j’ai retrouvé mes ailes (Création littéraire)

Phénix

          Je croyais que la nuit ne finirait jamais. Assise à la fênetre de ma chambre, j’avais en vain attendu la lumière pendant plusieurs jours. Les premiers rayons de soleil refusaient d’apparaȋtre sur le ciel qui avait un aspect triste. Je tremblais, car ce silence me semblait artificiel. L’absence de la lumière apportait le froid et le manque d’espoir. La peur presque brisait ma poitrine, je pouvais dénombrer précisement les battements de mon cœur. C’est ainsi que j’ai commencé à mesurer l’éternité.

          J’avais soif mais je ne pouvais pas boire, j’avais faim mais la présence de la nourriture me faisait mal. Toutes les pensées qui traversaient mon esprit me donnaient le vertige. Parfois je me demandais si je n’étais pas devenue aveugle ou si je rêvais. Mais, ensuite, j’ai réalisé que j’étais emprisonnée à l’interieur de moi-même. Quand je me promenais, dans…

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My first experience

My first experience

Getting to writte my own blog

My very first experience writting a blog is starting to sound like an adventure. I started looking for ways to get some money online and to generate a little bit of a venue and so I decided I will use blogging as a tool for this.

 

The first steps

My first steps in writting a blog were finding out what a blog should contain, what would atract more people to read my blog and, after that, to decide wich platform I would use. So the first ones were easier. I started reading e-books, searching through the internet for different forms of  blogs, what would attract more people to see my blog, how should I write it, the characteristics of a blog, how should my tittle be, how to do a resume for my tittle/subtittles, many things wich I gathered and tried to reunit in this very first post of mine. 

 

One of the best advices I received for posting and about posting is having a conversational tone, humor and direct and energetic sentences. Now, I know I’m not the best writter, but I’m getting there slow and steady. Of course, after reading some success articles, from the known Brian Tracy and after listening to one of hes speech from when he was little I decided I wanted to start posting on blogger.com and on wordpress.com .Image

 

Content reading

Some of the subject I would be interested in writting would be my experiences in life, games, products, other posts, videos, challenging for people. I also want to post reviews about other people, about their videos, about their experiences, photos, opinions. And from time to time, I want to realise motivational posts for people in general, to inspire, to get determined for things they want.

 

Getting more from this

What I want is to make my viewers content with what I write and get more people to share my opinion with.

Finding people who share the same interests as me is nice and I would like to get to know their point of view about what I write or about my opinions. 

Any other opinion is happily accepted as a feedback and I recommend you start today as well if you have anything planned. What should I write about next time?